Bigger Than a Tidbit . . .
Madonna owes me one. In the spring of 1990, she had arguably the most rewarding period of her career, both professionally and personally. In April, she began her global (planned) 35 city Blonde Ambition Tour, a follow up to her Like a Virgin Tour, two years before. Famous for Madonna in a bullet bra and pony tail wig—and for her onstage simulation of masturbation (condemned by the Pope himself but generating huge worldwide interest [and ticket sales])—it would later be hailed by critics as one of the best tours of the 90s. On May 22, her I’m Breatheless: Music Inspired by and from the Film Dick Tracy was realeased, in conjunction with the movie, which she had just finished shooting months earlier, and featured the mega hit “Vogue.” In the course of filming Dick Tracy, she was to meet her post-Sean-Penn boyfriend for next fifteen months, Warren Beatty, with whom she would later appear in her 1991 documentary, Madonna: Truth or Dare.
But let’s go back a few years.
Heaven Can Wait, the 1978 remake of the 1941 Robert Montgomerie classic Here Comes Mr. Jordan (which itself was based on the 1938 play Heaven Can Wait by Harry Segall), is one of my favorite movies. Warren Beatty playing the duel leads of pro football quarterback Joe Pendleton and millionaire tycoon Leo Farnsworth encapsulated the flip side of the 70s anti-hero in a comedic turn that was equal parts bravado and discombobulation. In the film, he epitomized the male joie de vivre of the era.
In real life, he was a stud.
At the time of Heaven Can Wait‘s release, Beatty owned Hollywood. A brother of a star—Shirley MacLaine—and a multi-threat talent who could act, write, direct and produce, at 41 years old, after appearing in such iconic works as Splendor in the Grass, Bonnie and Clyde, McCabe and Mrs. Miller, Parallax View and Shampoo (not to mention an unforgettable early, recurring teen role [five episodes] in TV’s The Many Loves of Dobie Gillis), he had accumulated fists full of accolades, including Academy Award nominations for Best Director, Best Original Screenplay, Best Adapted Screenplay and Best Actor (twice!).
But that’s not what I mean by “stud.”
As dazzling as his showbiz star was, it’s not a stretch to say his reputation as a player eclipsed it. During his career, he was rumored in the gossip columns to have slept with over 12,750 women (to which Beatty would offer a deadpan denial, “Do the math.”) But what is true is that he had been in relationships and had romanced for decades the spectrum of Hollywood princesses, including most of the actresses with whom he co-stared, from Natalie Wood in the early 1960s to his present wife, Annette Bening. (A list here of “in-betweens” would be too extensive, distracting—and utterly mind-blowing!) But for Hollywood, it was the recipe for the perfect storm of success: every man wanted to be him, and every woman wanted to be with him.
We now smash cut (to use a screenplay term) eleven years later. And this is where I come in.
I had just met my girl friend (and future wife), and after a lightning quick romance, had moved in together in an apartment on the Venice Beach boardwalk.* We were at that electric, discovery phase of our relationship, and every day, it seemed, I learned something new and exciting about her.
So one afternoon, she comes home with a few sundry Century City shopping bags under her arms, and after a brief rundown of her day (anyone guess “shopping?”), she says, “Oh, and I ran into Warren at “Stringfellow’s.”
. . . Warren.
“Yeah, Warren Beatty.”
Okay, I’ll just get this out of the way: my wife was a Playboy centerfold. Not that this in any way reflects my own studliness or sexual prowess, but only addresses the fact that this connection wouldn’t seem too outlandish since Beatty was known to frequent the Playboy Mansion. (And to the very contradiction of studliness, I really was just your average kinda guy—kinda quiet, kinda bookish, weekend golfer/football fan/ex-steelhead-sports-fisherman from Seattle who had moved to Los Angeles with my own kinda unfocused Hollywood ambitions to write, and just met a girl—her— on the beach. She was young and beautiful. A self-described “gypsy, jet-setting waif,” who opened up for me an urban-legend view of LA that wasn’t urban legend: “X”-fueled WeHo gay nightclubs, glitz-and-tits Sunset Strip, esoteric introductions to the Bohdi Tree bookstore and Erehwon organics, Torkom Sarydarian, Topanga’s Shrine By the Lake and Inn of the Seventh Ray, flavored vodkas and brown rice, Roscoe’s and Koo-Koo Roo Chicken, Dan Tana’s and I Love Juicys, Kitaro and Sade, late night road trips to Vegas [you never called it “Las Vegas!”], boogie boarding at Playa Del Rey, or just holding hands under a full-lit moon on a warm summer’s night on the Venice Beach pier. [Smells in quick succession: the sea breeze, creosote, citrus, jasmine, tar, patchouli, mugginess, Givenchy Gentleman, kale, fresh produce, carob, flavored coke, peppermint schnapps, chlorine.]
And then the Playboy Mansion itself, with its tennis courts and pinball machine playrooms and mirrored-ceiling bedrooms, and peacocks strutting the grounds, a full on menagerie nestled in the only grove of redwood in Southern California, Guy the head butler [the only guy I knew named Guy], and women, of course, everywhere. Young, beautiful [the créme de la créme is how the good ol’ boys in the Bel Air Country Club bridge room would assess them] women. And cocaine. And cocaine. And . . .
[So here’s my first experience in the famed Playboy pool and grotto: it’s during one of the two biggest parties of the year, the Midsummer Night’s Dream Party {the other being New Year’s Eve}. An epiphanistic moment where, wading knee-deep near the curved, flagstone edges of the pool, beer bottle in hand, I stop and just take everything in: the Afro-magnetic DJ at poolside, the bevy {no better way to use this word—really!}—bevy of sun-bronzed, bikini-clad goddesses romping through the haze of multi-neon crayon lighting, poked by tracers of slow-orbit disco ball blots, men who had real magic, magnitudes cooler than I ever dreamed {or wanted?} to be. Halogen smiles everywhere. Somewhere the Talking Heads‘ “Once In a Lifetime” running over images in my head of me—in what seemed like only nano seconds ago—wading knee-deep in hip boots in the Dosewollips River, fishing pole in hand, echoing precisely what I was thinking that very moment:
“And you may ask yourself: well, how did I get here?”]).
But I digress. Duh.
So she ran into Warren (first name!) at Stringfellow’s, a trendy dinner club in Century City, after popping in for an afternoon drink at the bar. Of course, I was curious. “Warren Beatty?”
“Yeah.”
“Well, that’s cool. And you know him how?”
“We dated a few times when I lived at the mansion.”
“And he remembered you?”
That’s when the look came that my fishing line was still in the water. Of course he remembered. They had, according to her, a short but intense relationship that faltered while he was away on an extended shoot of one of his movies, one of those affairs that unfortunately (I guess) for them both, never reached its full potential. But given time, who knew?
“But that was so long ago,” she perked, pecked me on the cheek, and turned to unpack her bags. Oh, the nonchalance of it all. And that really was that.
But not quite.
A few minutes later the phone rings (everyone still had a landline then). “Hey,” a guy’s voice says. “Can I speak to Sue?”
Little late in the day for official business, but sure. I hand her the phone.
I admit I’m a little curious, so from a few feet away, trying for discretion by fiddling with the stereo knobs, I eavesdrop. And the one-sided conversation I hear goes something like this:
“It was good seeing you, too. Fun catching up. (A pause) Ah, geez, I really can’t. Yeah, I’m seeing someone. Yeah, it feels kinda special. Okay, do that. You never know, right? Uh-huh, good talking to you, too.”
Now I turn from her direction, and I feel—I don’t really know how I feel.
Or yes I do.
“He’s as bright as they come, intrepid, and with that thing all women secretly respect: complete confidence in his sexual powers, confidence so great that he never had to advertise himself, even by hints.” Elia Kazan once said this about Warren Beatty, but at that very instant that’s exactly how I’m feeling!
For the next few days, there’s a gitup in my hitch as I head up and down the boardwalk. I’m beaming from ear to ear, pinching myself, clichés be damned! People are staring. I just cock-blocked Warren Beatty! Me, the steelhead fisherman from Seattle. Cock-blocked! Warren! Beatty! I love LA!
And oh yeah, one final thought. That Madonna thing, why she owes me one.
It was literally a few months after this encounter that filming for Dick Tracy began, where she and Beatty would meet on set and begin their affair. My conjecture is as follows: if I weren’t such a stud, my wife née girlfriend would have left me for him, and he and Madonna would’ve never happened. The timing would’ve been off; he would’ve been madly in love with another woman and Madonna would’ve never stood chance.
And if you Google the returns Madonna received from her association with Beatty, I’m pretty sure that tallies more than one.
*I would reminisce in later years that this was my “two year Bohemian nightmare,” and if you’ve ever lived on the Venice Beach boardwalk, with not only its crazy artists, musicians, actors, vendors, buskers, street performers, drum circlers, addicts, drunks, and schizos but also with its perpetual weekend stream of “normal” 300,000 plus tourists, you’d know why I say this.).